Using the commutation relations for the creation and annihilation operators we have
$$
\begin{equation}
a_{\alpha_1}a_\alpha^{\dagger} a_\beta a_{\alpha_2}^{\dagger} = (\delta_{\alpha \alpha_1} - a_\alpha^{\dagger} a_{\alpha_1} )(\delta_{\beta \alpha_2} - a_{\alpha_2}^{\dagger} a_{\beta} ), \tag{40}
\end{equation}
$$
which results in
$$
\begin{equation}
\langle 0|a_{\alpha_1}a_\alpha^{\dagger} a_\beta a_{\alpha_2}^{\dagger}|0\rangle = \delta_{\alpha \alpha_1} \delta_{\beta \alpha_2} \tag{41}
\end{equation}
$$
and
$$
\begin{equation}
\langle \alpha_1|\hat{h}_0|\alpha_2\rangle = \sum_{\alpha\beta} \langle \alpha|\hat{h}_0|\beta\rangle\delta_{\alpha \alpha_1} \delta_{\beta \alpha_2} = \langle \alpha_1|\hat{h}_0|\alpha_2\rangle \tag{42}
\end{equation}
$$